Your dog’s separation anxiety isn’t a life sentence
Separation anxiety is one of the most common — and most stressful — behavior problems dog owners face. The barking, the destruction, the guilt every time you pick up your keys. It’s exhausting for you and terrifying for your dog. But it’s also fixable. Bubbas gives you a structured, day-by-day training plan built specifically for separation anxiety, so you can help your dog feel safe when you leave.
Most dogs show measurable improvement within the first two weeks of consistent training.
“We were at the point where we couldn’t leave the house for five minutes without our dog losing it. After two weeks with Bubbas, she settled on her bed while we went grocery shopping. I cried in the car.”
What is separation anxiety in dogs?
Separation anxiety is a panic response. When your dog is left alone — or sometimes just separated from a specific person — their stress response kicks in. They aren’t being “bad” or “spiteful.” They’re genuinely distressed.
It can show up as barking, whining, destructive chewing, pacing, drooling, or even self-harm. Some dogs start panicking the moment they see you grab your keys or put on shoes. Others seem fine until you’ve been gone for a certain amount of time.
The good news: separation anxiety responds well to structured desensitization training. The key is consistency, patience, and a plan that builds on itself — exactly what Bubbas is designed to provide.
Signs your dog has separation anxiety
- Barking, howling, or whining that starts shortly after you leave
- Destructive behavior focused on doors, windows, or exit points
- Pacing, drooling, or panting when they sense you’re about to leave
- Accidents in the house despite being fully house-trained
- Escape attempts — scratching at doors, jumping at windows
- Refusing to eat when you’re not home
- Following you from room to room when you’re home (shadow behavior)
If your dog shows several of these signs, separation anxiety is likely. A veterinary check is also worth doing to rule out medical causes.
What you’ll work on in Bubbas
Bubbas breaks separation anxiety training into small, manageable daily sessions. You won’t be asked to do anything dramatic. Instead, you’ll gradually teach your dog that your departures are boring and your returns are no big deal.
- Calm departure and arrival routines that lower your dog’s arousal
- Graduated absences — starting at seconds and building to hours
- Settle training so your dog learns to relax in a specific spot
- Independence exercises that reduce shadow behavior
- Desensitization to pre-departure cues like keys, shoes, and coats
How Bubbas helps where other methods fall short
The biggest reason separation anxiety training fails is inconsistency. People start strong, then lose track of where they are in the process. They push too fast, the dog regresses, and everyone gets discouraged.
Bubbas solves this with structure. Your training plan adapts to your dog’s progress, tells you exactly what to do each day, and tracks your results so you can see the improvement — even on hard days.
- Daily sessions are 5–15 minutes — designed to fit real life
- AI coach answers your questions when you’re unsure
- Household support means everyone in your home follows the same plan
- Progress tracking shows your dog’s improvement over days and weeks
- Milestone celebrations keep you motivated through the long middle
Week 1 preview: What your first week looks like
Your first week focuses on calm foundations — no actual departures yet. You’ll work on lowering the emotional charge around leaving cues and building your dog’s ability to settle independently.
- Days 1–2: Practice picking up keys, putting on shoes, and sitting back down — no leaving. Reward calm behavior.
- Days 3–4: Short departures to the other side of a door. Start at 5 seconds. Build to 30.
- Days 5–7: Brief absences of 1–2 minutes. Return calmly. Track your dog’s response in the app.
Every dog moves at their own pace. Bubbas adjusts your plan based on how your dog responds, so you’re never pushing too fast.
Frequently asked questions
How long does separation anxiety training take?+
It varies by dog. Mild cases often show real improvement in 2–4 weeks. More severe cases can take 2–3 months of consistent work. The key is gradual progress — Bubbas tracks your dog’s improvement so you can see results even when day-to-day progress feels slow.
Can I use Bubbas if my dog has severe separation anxiety?+
Yes, but we recommend combining app-based training with guidance from a veterinary behaviorist for severe cases. Bubbas’ AI coach can help you decide when professional support might be needed, and the structured plan complements in-person behavioral work.
Will this work if I live alone and work full-time?+
Bubbas is designed for real life. Sessions are short (5–15 minutes), and you can do them before or after work. The plan also includes strategies for managing your dog’s alone time while training is in progress — like using enrichment, camera checks, and gradual schedule adjustments.
What’s the difference between separation anxiety and boredom?+
Boredom destruction is usually spread around the house and happens inconsistently. Separation anxiety destruction is focused on exit points (doors, windows) and happens every time you leave. Bubbas’ initial assessment helps identify which your dog is dealing with so you get the right plan.
Start helping your dog today
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