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Your rescue dog isn’t being destructive — they’re scared

You brought home a dog who needed you, and now the house is wrecked every time you leave. Shoes shredded, door frames scratched, couch cushions gutted. It’s not defiance — your rescue dog is panicking. They’ve already lost one home, and they’re terrified of losing another. Bubbas gives you a structured plan to build the trust your dog needs to feel safe when you’re gone.

Most rescue dogs show significant improvement in alone-time behavior within 3–4 weeks of consistent training.

TL;DR

  • Rescue dog chewing when alone is almost always stress, not boredom — they are panicking because they have already lost one home.
  • Start with a decompression period: consistent routines, a safe space, and no long absences for the first 1-2 weeks.
  • Graduated departure training builds alone-time confidence starting at seconds and working up to hours.

Best for

  • Newly adopted rescue or shelter dogs who destroy things when left alone
  • Dogs whose chewing focuses on exit points — doors, windows, crates — or items that smell like you
  • Owners in the first few weeks of a new adoption dealing with destructive behavior
  • Foster families needing to build a dog's alone-time skills before permanent placement

Not for

  • Dogs who chew casually throughout the day even when you are home (likely boredom chewing)
  • Puppies under 6 months whose chewing is primarily teething-related
  • Dogs with a long history in your home who suddenly start chewing (consult your vet first)

We adopted Biscuit from a shelter and he destroyed our baseboards the first week. I was terrified we’d made a mistake. Three weeks into the Bubbas plan, he started napping on his bed while we were out. The camera footage made me ugly-cry.

Jordan T., Pit mix rescue, 4 years old

Why rescue dogs chew when left alone

When a rescue dog destroys things while you’re away, it’s almost always stress. They’ve experienced upheaval — being surrendered, living in a kennel, adjusting to strangers. Their nervous system is on high alert. Chewing releases cortisol and gives them something to do with all that anxious energy.

This is different from boredom chewing, which tends to be more casual and spread around. Stress chewing is frantic. You’ll see it focused on exit points — doors, windows, crates — or on items that smell like you. The distinction matters because the fix is different.

The decompression period most people skip

Trainers call the first few weeks the "decompression period." Your rescue dog is not showing you who they really are yet. They’re overwhelmed, shut down, or running on adrenaline. Expecting them to handle being alone right away is setting everyone up to fail.

During decompression, your job is simple: reduce pressure. Keep the environment calm. Don’t leave them alone for long stretches yet. Let them learn the rhythms of your home before you start asking for independence.

  • Keep a consistent daily routine — same feeding times, same walk schedule, same bedtime
  • Avoid overwhelming them with visitors, new environments, or too much freedom
  • Give them a designated safe space: a crate left open, a gated room, a cozy corner
  • Let them come to you — don’t force affection or interaction

Management while you train: keeping your home intact

Training takes time. In the meantime, you need a management strategy so your dog isn’t practicing destructive behavior every time you step out.

  • Set up a safe space with nothing they can destroy — a pen, a dog-proofed room, or an open crate
  • Leave long-lasting enrichment: frozen Kongs, lick mats, snuffle mats, safe chews
  • Use a camera to monitor their behavior and identify stress patterns
  • Start with very short absences — even stepping outside for 30 seconds counts as training
  • Remove high-value chew targets (shoes, remotes, pillows) from accessible areas

How Bubbas builds alone-time confidence

Bubbas gives you a day-by-day plan designed for dogs who struggle with being alone. It starts where your dog is — not where you wish they were — and builds gradually.

  • Graduated departure training: start at seconds, build to minutes, then hours
  • Calm arrival and departure routines that lower your dog’s arousal around your comings and goings
  • Settle exercises that teach your dog to relax in their safe space
  • Independence-building games that reduce velcro-dog behavior
  • AI coach guidance when you’re not sure whether your dog’s behavior is normal adjustment or a sign to slow down

What your first two weeks look like

The plan starts slow on purpose. Rescue dogs need to learn that you always come back before they can handle you being gone.

  • Week 1: Focus on decompression. Establish routine, introduce safe space, practice very short (under 1 minute) absences. No real departures yet.
  • Week 2: Build duration. Absences extend to 5–15 minutes. Enrichment protocol begins. You start tracking calm vs. stressed behavior in the app.

Bubbas adjusts the pace based on your dog’s response. If they’re still stressed at 2 minutes, the plan won’t push you to 10.

Frequently asked questions

How long does the decompression period last for rescue dogs?+

The general rule is the "3-3-3" guideline: 3 days to decompress, 3 weeks to learn your routine, 3 months to feel at home. Some dogs adjust faster, others take longer. Bubbas helps you work within your dog’s timeline instead of rushing it.

Should I crate my rescue dog when I leave?+

It depends on the dog. Some rescues find crates comforting; others have negative associations with confinement. If your dog panics in a crate, a dog-proofed room with an open crate option is usually better. Bubbas’ AI coach can help you figure out what setup works best for your dog.

Is the chewing going to stop on its own as my dog settles in?+

Sometimes mild chewing decreases as your dog decompresses. But if the chewing is focused on exits, happens every time you leave, or is escalating, it won’t resolve without targeted training. The earlier you start a structured plan, the faster you’ll see improvement.

What if my rescue dog was already returned once for destructive behavior?+

That’s more common than people realize, and it doesn’t mean your dog is a lost cause. Dogs who’ve been returned often have higher baseline anxiety, which means the decompression and trust-building phases are even more important. Bubbas starts where your dog is and doesn’t skip steps.

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